interactions. A contract can be obvious or subtle. Sometimes you know exactly
what connects you to another person and other times you have to get out your
magnifying glass to read the fine print. An intuitive reading reveals the details of
your contracts. This brings clarity to “why and how” you know the people in your
life. Often what's not said is more important than the obvious agreements. A
reading illuminates the fine print, and also the hidden information in your contracts.
Obstacles appear when you need to update the contracts you have. Life
generates growth, and most people in your life will help you grow. Sometimes you
even grow by realizing how the relationship holds you back from growing. We can
unconsciously connect to specific people to help us complete unfinished business
from our past. This former time can be childhood, or some other early phase of
your existence which used to define you. This earlier version of yourself picked the
appropriate people with whom to grow, but now the association doesn't fit. In this
case, the contract needs to be updated.
Conflicts can take you off course from your original vision of a relationship. Try
creating private “vision statements” for all your associations. Do this with
everyone from your plumber to your spouse. Clear intentions make good
connections between people.
Techniques for improving relationships:
• Clarify what is on your side of the contract and realize what you want in return.
• Visualize harmonious interactions and smooth communication.
• Validate the purpose of the relationship. Keep it simple if you can.
• Create an symbolic energy space for clear communication.
• Be willing to release contracts that don't work in present time.
Relationships provide a fascinating mirror for what you expect from others around
you. An intuitive reading can bring immediate clarity to your current relationship
contracts and align your vision with positive results.
©Tamara Childs 2007
Relationships....Funhouse Mirrors?
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